It seems that when it comes to dieting, there are a few mistakes with lasting implications that are repeatedly made by people hoping to lead a healthier lifestyle. Hopefully by reading about these mistakes here you will learn to recognize them in advance and avoid them while striving for your own weight loss goals.
The first and most common mistake made when starting a new weight loss plan is not setting a goal. While you do not want to set a goal that will be impossible to achieve, you should also avoid setting a goal that is too small or not setting a goal at all. In fact, it is perfectly acceptable to set multiple goals. An initial goal of ten percent is a common practice among successful dieters. Making your goals known by your friends and loved ones will help to keep you motivated and on track for success.
The second most common dieting mistake is also the one that probably leads to the most failures. That would be having an all or nothing attitude. These are the people that rid there home of all temptation. They embark on a diet that is nearly impossible to maintain and the moment that they stray from their self imposed guidelines they believe that all is lost.
While this may work for some in the short term, they have set themselves up for long term failure, frustration and ill will towards all things ‘diet’. Remember, the long term goal of any diet is to lose weight. There are many ways in which this can be accomplished that do not involve starving yourself or punishing yourself in the process.
This brings us to the next big dieting mistake, depriving yourself of the comfort foods and other foods that you enjoy. When done in moderation, there should be no food that is off limits. Satisfy your hunger with fruits and vegetables but don’t be afraid to indulge occasionally just for the sake of your sanity. Remember, the first bite of chocolate tastes the same as the tenth bite…so just take one bite! There is no law that says that you cannot enjoy eating while on a diet. The problem lies in enjoying too much of the wrong foods.
Another common error is limiting yourself to only a handful of items that you eat on a daily basis. Although humans by nature crave structure and routine in our lives, we do enjoy having variety in our daily menu. Be sure that your diet allows you to enjoy a variety of foods to help prevent boredom and ensure continued success.
The final mistake which is made far too often is throwing in the towel. There will be weeks that you do not lose weight. There will probably even be weeks that you gain a pound or two. Even those that have achieved monumental success in their weight loss goals have had these set backs, the key is that they did not give up. They got past those road bumps, reevaluated their goals and got back on track. Do not let the set backs defeat your personal desire to become healthier.
Instead, you must learn to overcome those set backs and move on. Learn from your mistakes as much as you would from your successes and you will be well on your way to the healthier person that you strive to be. Whether your goal is 10 pounds or 100 pounds, your dedication and determination will be the driving factor that determines your success on the road to a healthier you. You will learn that a healthy you has healthy eating habits that don’t involve starving yourself or binging on things that are not healthy for you. Learn to enjoy your food in moderation and you will be well on your way to the success you seek.
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59 Comments to 'Common Dieting Mistakes'
July 31, 2009
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September 7, 2009
Great site! Thanks for the effort!
September 8, 2009
Thank you, Heather. Hope you found what you were looking for!
September 13, 2009
I really like your site. This is the first time I’ve seen it. It’s VERY informative. It must have taken you a long time to put together. Thank you!
September 14, 2009
Thanks for the kind words, Lindsay. It has definitely been a challenge and I’m not done yet. I’m still trying to add a couple of restaurants each week. Let me know if there is ever something that you are looking for that I don’t have and I will do my best to put it up for ya.
November 24, 2009
I love this site! it gives me everything I need from points to resturants and point caculator I love that I can accsess it all from my cell phone! thank you
November 24, 2009
Thanks Cassie! Comments like yours really make my day! Have a nice Thanksgiving!
December 24, 2009
Is there a certain amount of fruit and veggies we are supposed to eat a day on WW?
December 24, 2009
Hi Melissa, on my official WW food journal it has a spot to check off for 5 servings of fruits and veggies each day. That is what I aim for…
December 28, 2009
Thanks Dan I think I will aim for that too:)
January 5, 2010
I love your site!!!
Nicely done and very informative! Kudos to you!
January 5, 2010
That’s great to hear, Christine! Thank you!
January 5, 2010
I just wanted to let you know that I love this site. I just stumbled upon in the other day and am now on here on a near daily basis because it is so helpful. Thanks and keep up the good work!
January 6, 2010
Welcome to the site Angela, and thanks for the kind words. I hope you found what you were looking for!
February 18, 2010
Just stumbled onto this site. Week 5 on WW for me. I have lost a little over 8 pounds. Of course loosing quicker…. would be great but I’m taking baby steps. Each week I try to pinpoint a way to make the following week a more successful week for weight loss by looking at how the previous week went.
February 18, 2010
Welcome to the site Karen, and congrats on the 8 pounds! You are off to a great start! If you ever stumble upon any tips that you feel would help others, feel free to mention them here in the comments.
February 18, 2010
Hi Dan!
Great site! I love it! I came to ur site a few weeks ago, I tried to leave a comment but it wouldn’t let me. I tried again today and YAY!
Dan I need ur help…….I did WW on my own and I lost A TON on weight ( I went from 160-125 ) Well just this past OCT 2009 my weight was 125 and I went on a month vacation and OH MY GOSH I GAINED 15 pounds!!!! The scale said 140…..is it even possible to gain that much in such a short time frame?? And the funny thing is I was sick for like 2 weeks of the whole vacation…..I don’t get it. Well I started back on WW right after x-mass and I was doing so good until the end of Jan 2010….but get this I was working out so hard watching what I eat and I didn’t even lose a pound the whole month! I got so sad and I gave up…..since then I cant get back into it…..why is this not working for me….I try every week and something just goes soo wrong and I don’t make it……any words of advise?
February 18, 2010
Welcome aboard Rada and thanks for visiting. Sorry about the comment thing, I accidentally disabled the comments and did not realize it for a couple of weeks.
First, congrats on successfully losing so much weight. Its amazing how much time and dedication it takes to lose the weight and how quickly that can all come undone with a little bit of ‘vacationing’. I’m going through a similar situation myself since the holidays.
Obviously from your past success, you know what to do to be successful at losing the weight. I would say it’s time to get back to the basics…keep a food journal, drink lots of water and exercise – exercise – exercise. Make sure that you are making healthy food choices.
There are a few links below with some more reading that may help:
Expectations and Plateaus
Stopping Self-Sabotage
Tips & Advice
Hopefully something above will ring a bell for ya. Good luck and keep in touch.
February 18, 2010
Hi again Dan,
You know what I think those articles did help. Thanks so much! Something did ring a bell, u r so right!! I guess I just have to go back to the basics…..can I ask you something though? When you do go back to step one….do you ever get scared or feel like you wont make it through the first week and that something will just come along and make you ruin all ur hard work?? Or is it only me that feels that way…..
February 19, 2010
Hi Radha. No, I wouldn’t describe it as being scared. More like discouraged, because of all of the hard work that may have been wasted and having to start over again. Just don’t give up. There will be bad days, just make sure the good ones outnumber the bads.
March 5, 2010
What a great site!! Thankyou for all of this helpful information !!!
March 5, 2010
Thank you Liz, it’s always great to hear that!
March 14, 2010
Wow. I love this site! I’ll definitely be using it. I’ve always wanted to try weight watchers. It never occurred to me that I didn’t have to spend money on a membership, duh! Thank you so much! Wish me luck. Gotta lose 250 pounds!
March 14, 2010
Thanks for visiting the site Emily! The info on the site can definitely be used to help people do weight watchers on their own, but some people really need to attend the meetings to keep them motivated…I think I’m one of them. My last official meeting was in December and I have lost and found the same pound many times since then…just can’t get rid of it for good.
If you can keep yourself motivated you will have much success. Give us a comment every once in awhile to let us know how you are doing. Good luck!!
April 1, 2010
Excellent site. I joined WW but coudn’t make head or tail of what to do with it all. This is simple and easy to look at. I’ve also been using the calculator for little things like the odd custard cream and hot cross buns. It really makes you realsie how much you take in without thinking.
I hope WW don’t mind this site existing, I’d hate for it to go.
Well done.
>:-)
April 1, 2010
Thanks for the compliment Cyra, and thanks for visiting the site. Hope you found what you were looking for and good luck with your goals.
May 15, 2010
Thank you so much for this site! I am going to start Weight Watchers this week after hearing so many successful stories from others, it helps me feel that I am not alone when I come to your site. Keep up the great work!
May 15, 2010
Hi Angie, thanks for the nice comment! You are definitely not alone and there are lots of great people that visit here that can help with pretty much any question that you have. If you haven’t already found it, there is also a forum where you can go if you ever have any questions or suggestions for the site. The link is in the right hand column. Best wishes!!
June 9, 2010
I found your site after googling a points value for a restaurant. What a find! You are doing an awesome job and this website has just been added to my favorites! I have been on your site for several hours now and there are still things I would like to read. Congratulations on your success so far with WW and keep up the good, no make that GREAT, work! Take care.
June 9, 2010
Thanks Nichole, you just made my day!! Good luck to you and thanks for stopping in
June 29, 2010
Great site, I also think one major big mistake some dieters make is skipping meals, thinking that it will help them lose weight, thinking well If I dont have breakfast I can eat more lunch etc. I have favourited this site, AWESOME!!
June 29, 2010
I’ve been trying to lose weight for a while now. I’ve been researching weight watchers all day today and I am going to try it! I hope this works for me! Your site is great and super informative, I’m going to get a lot of use out of it that’s for sure! Thanks for all your hard work in putting this together!
June 30, 2010
Great point, Danielle. Most people don’t realize that you will lose more weight eating a healthy diet than you will by barely eating at all. Weird how so many people feel the need to starve themselves…
Thanks for visiting Danielle, and thanks for the great comment!
June 30, 2010
My pleasure, Kelsey. Glad you found the site and thanks for the the kind words. Good luck to you!
July 7, 2010
Hi dan im looking for a restraunt called butterbees i eat there alot on weekend and would love to see the points for what im eating? do you have it or am i missing it?
July 7, 2010
Hi Megan, welcome to the site. I never heard of butterbees so I looked them up…is it butterbees american grill? If so, they don’t have any info on their website. I sent a message to them on their ‘contact us’ page but I rarely get a response when I do that. I will let you know here if I do here anything back. Thanks for visiting
July 19, 2010
Hi Dan,
You are a life saver. I had pretty much accepted that I was going to have to spend a load of money on ordering the Weight Watchers pack; money that I really don’t have.
Your site is so informative; I have just spent about 2 hours looking at points information.
Thank you so much and if you ever manage to find a Big Mac substitute with about 2 points in it…please do let me know!
Louise
July 19, 2010
LOL, if I ever find a Big Mac substitute with only 2 points there would be no more need for this site, everyone would be eating 2 point big macs non-stop everyday!!
Glad you finally found the site and I hope you found every thing that you were looking for!
July 23, 2010
Just wanted to let everyone know that I may not be able to check the site much over the next week or so. There may be a delay in new comments appearing on the site after submission. Sorry for the inconvenience!
August 5, 2010
Hi Dan, My daughter and her boyfriend are trying to lose weight with the help of the weight watchers site. My daughter has lost 4lb and i have decided to give it go with them. I suffer from Arthritis so spend most of my time sitting around as most forms of exercise are impossible and very painful. Unfortunately, since I had to give up work because of the illness i have piled on the weight and because i don’t have a great deal to occupy my time, i do nibble a lot. Can you tell me if a certain fruit is 0 points, will it still be 0 points if i was to eat say 4 or 5 of them a day? I need to find something that can take the place of the wrong foods that i have been eating.
Great site and hope to be posting soon that i have lost some weight, thanks
August 6, 2010
Hi Sally, thanks for visiting.
That’s a good question about the fruit and seems to be kind of a grey area. My meeting leader could not give us a definite answer how to deal with similar situations. Basically, as long as you are not eating them all at the same time they would count as one serving each time and still be 0 points. But don’t forget that WW only allows for five servings of 0 point items per day and after that you have to start counting them as points.
Thanks for the kind words about the site and we hope to here from ya soon!
August 7, 2010
Thanks for the speedy reply Dan. That is a big help
August 8, 2010
Hi Dan, it’s me again. Just been talking to my daughter about your reply to my post and we now need to know if you mean we can only have five 0 point items a day across the board or can we say have five 0 point fruits and five 0 point veg and say five 0 point drinks per day.
If i have a salad, I will have cucumber, tomatoes and lettuce that is three 0 points already, then i will probably have a cup of 10 cal soup which is 0 points. Does this mean that i can only have one more 0 point item in that day?
Thanks in advance
Sally
August 8, 2010
Hi Sally! In general, even though some of the ingredients of your salad are 0 points, the salad as a dish will still be points. When talking 0 point food, that only refers to an item that you ate that you counted as zero points (not just ingredients). You are only allowed to eat 5 ‘free’ items per day…after that they start to add up. If your salad adds up to 0 points for everything, count that as 1 item.
The whole idea of limiting 0 point items is that everything has calories. If you go overboard trying to fill up on only 0 point items you still have eaten some calories and depending on what you are eating, multiple servings can turn into point quite quickly
Hope this helps and thanks for visiting.
September 8, 2010
Hi Dan,
I think your site is great. I am 39 years old and have made it a goal to be 200 lbs by my 40th birthday. (11 months from now) I have 85 more lbs to lose and your site has beena big help.
Thank you for all of the hard work creating and maintaining a website that provides answers to so many of my questions.
Warm regards,
John
September 9, 2010
Hi John, welcome aboard and thanks for visiting! You should think about joining us in the forum. There are only a few of us using it at this point but there is lots of support and motivation. Good luck with your goals
September 24, 2010
Hi Dan,
I hope that all is well. I stumbled upon your site a few days ago after researching how to lose weight on my own. I have been counting calories and exercising for the past 4 months and have only lost 9pounds I have another 40- 45pounds to go so i think than 9 pounds in 4 months is very slow. So i have decided to do WW im not working at this time and cannot afford it. But I would like to thank you for this info. Its a really BIG help. Is there anyway for me to have a copy of this info i like to have manual so if i dont have access to the internet. Once Again THANK YOU and may God bless you in your efforts to help others
September 24, 2010
Hello Chrissy and welcome to the site, I’m glad you found it! Nine pounds in two months is a great accomplishment and you should be proud of that number. Even when doing weight watchers you should only expect to lose between 1/2 a pound to two pounds max per week (slow and steady wins the race), which would put you pretty close to where you are.
As for having access to the materials offline, the only option I can think of is buying the weight watchers starter set. I have some for sale on the site here (please do not feel obligated to buy from me), and they are also available on ebay and amazon. The set comes with the Dining Out Guide which has points for different restaurants and the Complete Food Companion which has points for things you would buy at a grocery store. When looking for the books online make sure they are not the older versions (2008 or 2009) so that you are sure to have the latest information (2010).
Thanks for the great comment and best wishes with Weight Watchers. There are a couple of us that post our weekly weigh ins in the forums and offer each other encouragment and advice if that is something that you think would help keep you motivated. Feel free to join us if you like.
September 24, 2010
Dear Dan,
Thank you for your quick response. Im sorry but i wont be able to purchase one because as mentioned before i am not working, I live in the caribbean and because of a few debts my credit cards were cancelled. But this site is great I will visit often and probably just write down the foods that i eat most to keep them on hand. I have a question for you would you have any idea of how much points peas and rice is the ingredients are peas (pigeon or grean peas) rice tomatoes paste (about two tbsp) oil (about two table spoon) and onion (about a half)This is the caribbean way. Once again thank you and God bless. Also where do i go to become apart of the forum.
September 28, 2010
Sorry I missed your reply, Chrissy. I would put the points for what you described at 2-4 points, but a lot of it depends on how much peas, what kind of oil and what kind of onion. I would go with the 4 points just to be safe. I see you already found the link for the forums so we hope to hear from you soon
September 29, 2010
Hi Dan,
Once again thank you! When I went to the forum to sign up there was a message stating that a password would be sent to my email i dont recall receiving one. Can you assist with this?
September 29, 2010
You have mail
October 6, 2010
Hi Dan,
Thank you i received the email. I went to the site to check it out, I tried posting a comment not sure if it went through
October 7, 2010
hey ! i have been in weight watchers about 5 months at my heavist i as 12.13 now i am 10.3 but this eek seems to be the hardest . im just fed up with all the food im eating !!! any tips ?
October 8, 2010
Hi Gillian, welcome to the site! I know what you mean about being fed up. Seems like I am writing the same things down in my journal everyday. It’s always best to mix it up with a little variety but I seem to prefer the safety of the same boring old things day after day. Just remember that you can eat pretty much anything you want, just control your portion sizes so that the point value is managable with your daily allowance.
October 28, 2010
Thank you so so much for all the effort you have put in to giving us all the information we need to persevere with our weight goal
October 28, 2010
My pleasure Edith!! Thanks for visiting and taking the time to leave a comment
March 16, 2011
I love your site and I wanted to join your forumn and I am still awaitng an approval email
Thanks
March 17, 2011
Hi Khristina, sorry about the delay with the forum approval, you should be all set now.
There are so many spammers that try to join the forum each day that when I actually get someone that really wants to join they sometimes get looked over. Sorry!!